The Misunderstanding of Financial Domination
“Open that wallet take out your card and spend, spend, spend". Besides your impractical conscience that tempts you whenever you’re shopping, This would sound crazy if uttered from another person. The scam alerts would immediately go off and not a single penny would be spent.But lets imagine that you were turned on by these words. What if you became aroused every time you gave someone your money or bought them gifts with no expectation of any type of sexual gratification in return. Sounds crazy right I mean this is the sex industry. Well, it’s actually a fetish called Financial Domination, which is a sub-category of BDSM. Yes, there are men (sometimes females) who get off on being dominated financially, they are referred to as paypigs, cashcows, human atm’s, finsubs or moneyslaves. The dominant (usually women) that they serve or worship is called a Financial Dominatrix or Findomme.
The Psychology Behind The Madness
So why are so many men turned on by being dominated or forced to give their money to these women without any favors in return? Is it the exchange of money and/ or gifts, maybe it’s the fact of spending large quantities of money on a beautiful woman. Well it’s none of the above; okay maybe just a little, but mainly it’s because of the financial control the domme exudes upon the sub’s finances. Hence the name Financial Domination. Relinquishing all control over your money and finances to another, feels like a loss of control especially if your financial livelihood lies in their hands. Well just imagine how powerless you would feel if you had no choice in the matter. Imagine you were being forced or blackmailed into giving someone money or control over your spending. This is the sexual thrill of Financial Domination which focuses on humiliation, masochism and domination. The finsub becomes aroused by the domination that the findom exudes over him, and the exchange of money or gifts is like a mental orgasm; some may even have a real sexual orgasm. To those who prefer vanilla porn this concept may be a bit hard to grasp even unbelievable, but in the world of BDSM, sexual arousal is dependent upon the amount of pain, degradation, and humiliation a dominant enforces onto their submissive depending on the subs tolerance level.
So Where Do I Sign Up To Be A Findom/Finsub
The vast growth in the different types of social media platforms has drastically changed the adult industry. Because of this, there has been an increase in the audience for both the vanilla and fetish porn. Consequently, this has resulted in an increase of fake findoms and finsub in the BDSM community who perpetrate the lifestyle. There are so many copy-cat amateurs out there that portray themselves as Findoms or Finsubs because they find some appealing aspect of the Fetish. Many times, these types convey a certain image of what they think is correct which creates skepticism amongst the practice because they fail to educate themselves and learn about the lifestyle.
Everyone has to start from somewhere, so by no means am I bashing those that are new to the lifestyle, but you have to take the time to learn and understand it. Do not make a mockery of it by doing what you think is correct. Findommes are dominant in their mannerism which means they do not beg or portray neediness. I see so many new dommes begging for money and this is a turn-off to many Finsubs who are attracted to the confidence and independence of Findommes. Remember, we as dommes never need a subs money we will always be self- sufficient, but we deserve it because of our superiority. Finsubs on the other hand, boy am I tired of all these fake losers. Let’s set you in your rightful place; you are a paypig you pay or tribute dommes for their attention, time or simply because you are grateful for their superiority. If you are broke or do not want to part with your money then Financial Domination is not the Fetish for you.
How To Be A Findomme or Finsub
Pssst….Financial Domination isn’t a job it’s a lifestyle. There’s no universal tutorial on how to be a good Findomme or Finsub. Most of the time those who choose this lifestyle stumbled upon it and became interested in it. The most important advice that I can give to those that are just beginning whether your the dominant or submissive is to learn from your successors. Those dommes and subs that have had much success with this Fetish can serve as a sort of mentor towards your growth. Look at other successful domme’s social media and websites to get a general idea of the path that you should be on, in order to insure that you are successful and stand out amongst the masses. Being a Findomme doesn’t require you to be beautiful although you may have an advantage if you decide to go with the Goddess or Princess persona. Although these two types are different variations of Findom they normally lack the fundamental dominance that this fetish is built upon; instead they use their beauty as the leverage for financial control along with occasional blackmail. I’m not bashing this by any means but this sort of Findom kind of distorts the true practice of Financial Domination. In order to gain control over someone you must first learn all there is to know about the person, this allows you to enter their world and control certain aspects of their behavior or lifestyle. Finsubs want to be controlled and humiliated. This is what arouses them and keeps them hooked coming back for more. Most of the subs that are moneyslaves normally take on a dominant role in their life and want to escape by submitting and taking on a submissive role especially to a beautiful woman. The idea of complete vulnerabilities and loss of masculinity can be sexually arousing to some men; and what better way to control a man than to strip him of his financial power and freedom by humiliating and blackmailing him into a deep disparity of financial debt simply because he can’t control his lust for a female. This sexual control and dominance is what Financial Domination is built upon. Men will always be a slave to their lust and obsession with the female anatomy and that’s why we will always be superior. For those who chose to be the submissive male (sometimes female) finsub, paypig, cashcow ect…. be true to the lifestyle, accept who you are and know your place. I am so tired of broke non-tributing subs who just want some sort of freebie. I mean “Hello” you are a FINSUB. That’s all I’m going to say about fake subs for they don’t deserve attention. To those true human-atm’s and moneyslaves, keep cumming with cash!
Until Next Time,
May your pain be my pleasure
