What's Your Cup of Pee?

A Glimpse in The life of a Femdom Fetishist

“Dear Mistress,

I am a full  toilet meaning I will consume all piss, shit and ……”.

Receiving an email like this to the average person would be grotesquely insulting, but to me this is just another desperate plea of false servitude from a depraved submissive or another weak minion for me to add to my collection of fetish addicts.   My name is Goddess Trinidy (my stage name of course) and I am a Femdom Fetishist.  Most of you who are reading this probably know what that is, but to the few of you that do not it is a female dominant that incorporates fetishes into the BDSM services they provide.  With that being said, I receive these types of emails and messages on a daily basis. As an adolescent and teen I was always intrigued by porn. I have always had a mental obsession with sex and its power. At a young age I realized how much control a female possesses over a male with just her essence of sex; without having to engage in any type of sexual intercourse.  Knowing this I always tended to be the dominant one in any relationship that I had it just seemed natural.  At the time I did not understand the world of BDSM that is dominant/submissive & slave/master relationships but I soon would learn.  

My first experience with BDSM and Fetishes came about 3 years ago during the summer of 2012.  I was experimenting with different webcam modeling sites in order to make some extra money when I came across an article that was written by a fetish PSO (phone sex operator).  She elaborated on the type of work that she did and how phone sex was not obsolete and how its becoming more popular among fetishists especially femdoms (financial dominatrix).  The idea of being a phone sex operator was my first option prior to webcamming due to its versitility, but as she elaborated more and more on what she actually did as a Femdom she began to peak my interest and from that day forward I began my journey into the world of Female Domination.  

Female Domination pumped full of your deboucharous sadistic Fetishes; sounds wickedly delicious.  Well to those that rather indulge in a little BDSM versus Vanilla porn this is just what the domme ordered lol….  Because we are all different no one person is turned on in the same manner as the next, we all are aroused by different things.  Some of us become aroused by sensual touches, words or seeing others nude engaging in sexual acts.  This is what society would deem as the norm, but there is a closeted percentage of the population that aren’t aroused by this mainstream porn and this is where I come in and dominate.  There are so many different types of Fetishes I would be here for hours if I had to name them all, but some popular ones that I will elaborate on are: foot, verbal humiliation and financial domination.  These 3 tend to be very common amongst the fetish community.  To an outsider who doesn’t understand the sexual arousal or mindcontrol a fetish has over an individual it may seem absurd, but “do not judge one because they indulge differently in their sexual appetite”.

 

Foot Fetish

What is it about the feet that sexually arouses and tantalizes the male (or female) hormones and drive him crazy. Is it the natural untamed scent of a womans sweaty feet that sends the blood rushing to his manhood causing a standing ovation or is it the smooth roundness of her heals and arching of the feet that makes him explode.  Maybe it’s the thrill of being forced to lick and worship a womans feet whether their filthy, sweaty or clean.  Whatever your foot muse may be there is another ready to indulge in your fantasy.  I myself love foot fetishes and foot worship sessions.  These types of sessions normally involve some type of verbal humiliation along with the submissive worshiping my feet by getting on their knees and praying to my feet or me verbally telling them how they should lick my feet and how I like them cleaned.  All of my foot sessions are virtual for I am an online domme.  I also make foot fetish clips that involve different foot fetish fantasies.  Many of these clips produced are my own original ideas but I do feature other clips that are customs requested by my viewers.  So the next time you see a pair of sweaty stinky feet don’t say ewww open up and say ahhhhh.

Verbal/Public Humiliation

“You’re a filthy maggot beneath my feet, your existance is worthless with out me”.  What the F^^k..... Yes, this is what most of you are thinking, verbal humiliation goes deeper than just the superficial words that are spoken.  Let’s take a look at the psychology of humiliation to a submissive.  By nature submissives or people that consider themselves bottoms tend to be passive individuals that are erotically stimulated by demeaning acts or words. Humiliation is not only verbal, as I previously stated; it encompasses a range of paraphilia, including foot fetish, shoe fetish, body worship, spanking, bondage, and other BDSM fetish play.  So what is so sexually arousing about being humiliated you may ask.  Well, its the feeling of being vulnerable and helpless that sexually excites the person.  Humiliation stimulates the same brain regions that are associated with pain and since pain is a stimulation this feeling arouses the individual and is normally coupled with some type of sexual stimulation that compliments the experience.  The ending result is an addictive euphoric experience that’s painfully pleasurable.  Most people who enjoy this type of fetish may want to indulge in roleplay that is completely opposite from their daily roles.  Most are naturally dominant and fantasize about being humiliated or forced to conduct demeaning acts while others may have some underlying eroticism about humiliation due to experience or even some childhood experience.  Whatever the sexual stimulant that humiliation arouses there is a growing demand for this type of BDSM fetish.

Financial Domination

I’m not going to go much into depth about this newly rather expensive fetish but Financial Domination entails just what its name says which is dominating by financial servitude.  For more information about Finacial Domination or Findoms read my blog post “The Misunderstanding Of Financial Domination”

*If you would like to request a custom clip by me Goddess Trinidy you may:

1. Send an email to : goddesstrinidy@gmail.com  (include description and duration)
2. Request a custom at IWantClips
3. Request a custom at Customs4U

Until Next Time, May Your Pain Be My Pleasure!

Goddess Trinidy

The Misunderstanding of Financial Domination

 

 

“Open that wallet take out your card and spend, spend, spend". Besides your impractical conscience that tempts you whenever you’re shopping,  This would sound crazy if uttered from another person.  The scam alerts would immediately go off and not a single penny would be spent.But lets imagine that you were turned on by these words.  What if you became aroused every time you gave someone your money or bought them gifts with no expectation of any type of sexual gratification in return.  Sounds crazy right I mean this is the sex industry.  Well, it’s actually a fetish called Financial Domination, which is a sub-category of BDSM.  Yes, there are men (sometimes females) who get off on being dominated financially, they are referred to as paypigs, cashcows, human atm’s, finsubs or moneyslaves. The dominant (usually women) that they serve or worship is called a Financial Dominatrix or Findomme.

The Psychology Behind The Madness

So why are so many men turned on by being dominated or forced to give their money to these women without any favors in return?  Is it the exchange of money and/ or gifts, maybe it’s the fact of spending large quantities of money on a beautiful woman.  Well it’s none of the above; okay maybe just a little, but mainly it’s because of the financial control the domme exudes upon the sub’s finances.  Hence the name Financial Domination.  Relinquishing all control over your money and finances to another, feels like a loss of control especially if your financial livelihood lies in their hands.  Well just imagine how powerless you would feel if you had no choice in the matter.  Imagine you were being forced or blackmailed into giving someone money or control over your spending.  This is the sexual thrill of Financial Domination which focuses on humiliation, masochism and domination.  The finsub becomes aroused by the domination that the findom exudes over him, and the exchange of money or gifts is like a mental orgasm; some may even have a real sexual orgasm.  To those who prefer vanilla porn this concept may be a bit hard to grasp even unbelievable, but in the world of BDSM, sexual arousal is dependent upon the amount of pain, degradation, and humiliation a dominant enforces onto their submissive depending on the subs tolerance level.

       

     So Where Do I Sign Up To Be A Findom/Finsub

The vast growth in the different types of social media platforms has drastically changed the adult industry.  Because of this, there has been an increase in the audience for both the vanilla and fetish porn.  Consequently, this has resulted in an increase of fake findoms and finsub in the BDSM community who perpetrate the lifestyle.  There are so many copy-cat amateurs out there that portray themselves as Findoms or Finsubs because they find some appealing aspect of the Fetish.  Many times, these types convey a certain image of what they think is correct which creates skepticism amongst the practice because they fail to educate themselves and learn about the lifestyle.  

Everyone has to start from somewhere, so by no means am I bashing those that are new to the lifestyle, but you have to take the time to learn and understand it.  Do not make a mockery of it by doing what you think is correct.  Findommes are dominant in their mannerism which means they do not beg or portray neediness.  I see so many new dommes begging for money and this is a turn-off to many Finsubs who are attracted to the confidence and independence of Findommes.  Remember, we as dommes never need a subs money we will always be self- sufficient, but we deserve it because of our superiority.  Finsubs on the other hand, boy am I tired of all these fake losers.  Let’s set you in your rightful place; you are a paypig you pay or tribute dommes for their attention, time or simply because you are grateful for their superiority.  If you are broke or do not want to part with your money then Financial Domination is not the Fetish for you.

How To Be A Findomme or Finsub

Pssst….Financial Domination isn’t a job it’s a lifestyle.  There’s no universal tutorial on how to be a good Findomme or Finsub.  Most of the time those who choose this lifestyle stumbled upon it and became interested in it.  The most important advice that I can give to those that are just beginning whether your the dominant or submissive is to learn from your successors.  Those dommes and subs that have had much success with this Fetish can serve as a sort of mentor towards your growth.  Look at other successful domme’s social media and websites to get a general idea of the path that you should be on, in order to insure that you are successful and stand out amongst the masses.  Being a Findomme doesn’t require you to be beautiful although you may have an advantage if you decide to go with the Goddess or Princess persona.  Although these two types are different variations of Findom they normally lack the fundamental dominance that this fetish is built upon; instead they use their beauty as the leverage for financial control along with occasional blackmail.  I’m not bashing this by any means but this sort of Findom kind of distorts the true practice of Financial Domination. In order to gain control over someone you must first learn all there is to know about the person, this allows you to enter their world and control certain aspects of their behavior or lifestyle.  Finsubs want to be controlled and humiliated.  This is what arouses them and keeps them hooked coming back for more.  Most of the subs that are moneyslaves normally take on a dominant role in their life and want to escape by submitting and taking on a submissive role especially to a beautiful woman.  The idea of complete vulnerabilities and loss of masculinity can be sexually arousing to some men; and what better way to control a man than to strip him of his financial power and freedom by humiliating and blackmailing him into a deep disparity of financial debt simply because he can’t control his lust for a female.  This sexual control and dominance is what Financial Domination is built upon.  Men will always be a slave to their lust and obsession with the female anatomy and that’s why we will always be superior.  For those who chose to be the submissive male (sometimes female) finsub, paypig, cashcow ect…. be true to the lifestyle, accept who you are and know your place.  I am so tired of broke non-tributing subs who just want some sort of freebie.  I mean “Hello” you are a FINSUB.  That’s all I’m going to say about fake subs for they don’t deserve attention.  To those true human-atm’s and moneyslaves, keep cumming with cash!  
 

Until Next Time,

       May your pain be my pleasure