It’s Not Free??!!
Nothing worth something is rarely free in life. With that being said, why in the hell would any female dominatrix (domme) if they weren’t getting paid or spoiled in some form of way give attention to these disgusting maggots out here who beg and plead to be humiliated, abused or acknowledge their freakishly small dick. I simply put it like this to one slave:
“just as you work for a living this is my living. Though I enjoy what I do and give much pleasure to others, I have to pay bills as well despite my avenue of revenue”
he clearly understood after I put it in Layman's’ terms. Many newbie submissives or those that don’t understand the BDSM lifestyle or certain fetishes within this broad category often times put labels on dommes as beggers or needy, but by no means are we any of the above. In fact, most dommes are very well educated and talented, with that being said they treat this like a business and the submissives that serve them are their clients.
Tribute For My Attention!
If you have to ask what a tribute is or why it’s necessary, then clearly this isn’t the fetish or domme for you. A tribute is a way to show your superior domme/master that you are thankful for their time and attention it also sorts out the real submissives from the fake ones that are time wasters. It may be in the form of a cash or gift from their Amazon Wishlist, whatever method of tribute your domme/master agrees to will suffice. Often times submissives will tribute their goddess simply because they know it’s the only way a beautiful woman will give them attention. These men are referred to as paypigs, humanatm’s, money slaves ect… this type of relationship is normally associated with the sub-category of BDSM called Financial Domination or Findom. With this fetish men are erotically stimulated by giving their Mistress or Goddess money. The transaction is like an orgasm to the sub; they’re turned on by having beautiful woman spend all of their money, sometimes even draining their bank accounts. Findom is a rare fetish, and can be dangerously addictive, for the sub that is, simply because it’s all mind control. So the next time you message a domme and she replies “tribute for my attention” know that in this game you have to pay to play!
How Do I Find The Perfect Fit?
It may take you a while to find the right domme. Maybe you haven’t figured out what aspect of BDSM turns you on or you feel as though you need to explore a little more before you decide to surrender to a domme. It’s perfectly normal, but know that most people who have to think about a decision too long probably doesn’t really want to go through with the act. So my advice to those that are new to this lifestyle is to test the waters, find out what fits you then seek a domme that offers those services or fetishes. One last bit of advice …….. better yet one last bit of information, although many dommes enjoy what they do it’s still work and no one works for FREE!!!!!!
Until next time, May your Pain be My Pleasure!!!
Goddess Trinidy